Next issue: soap you're using?
Skin softness definitely not the issue. Culprits in order of probable likelihood: technique, razor, blade or maybe blade, razor. Dial the Crusader down to minimum gap for now, and work on pressure and stubble mapping while you wait for the blade samples to arrive. The VDH blades are not that bad, so I am thinking technique or razor are the issues.
CVS (if you have it) sells unbranded DE blades that are actually Personna from Israel (and so pretty good) and Walmart sells Wilkinsons at least in some branches so you may want to try those sources for "fast relief", but, as mentioned, I think the blade is the least of the problems here.
I use the taylor of old bond. Heard great stuff
Ah, not really!
Hate to pee in the cornflakes again, but TOBS is pretty entry level, and has really awful post shave skin soothing properties. For me personally, the TOBS stuff was just a facial nightmare for my first few months of wet shaving - left my skin dry and irritated, even after technique improved. I never really had a halfway decent shave from TOBS. If your skin is at all sensitive, TOBS will not do you any favors.
I suggest you try a soap (which means getting a brush... you see how the $$ add up!), in particular a Barrister & Mann Reserve (any scent will do) which go for around $18. If you have a Target nearby, Cremo or Pacific Shaving Company creams are good choices for about $6 or so and can be used brushless - either of those are much kinder to the old dermis than TOBS. (The other British creams are also much the same - T&H, Trumpers, and TOBS are all made on the same line in some factory somewhere.)
Pee away brother! I have been using the tobs as a lather with my brush. I do have some shave butter and cremo laying around too. Havent tried them yet, but will order the barrister soap tonight.
All the Reserve scents are great - Cool, Lavender, and Fern are my favorites, but all are excellent. Are you using a brush or still hand lathering? The Cremo works better with a brush and the Reserve will pretty much need one.
The barrister and mann you suggested
I have a boars hair brush. I just purchasesd some new soap recommended on this sub
What type of boar? A Semogue or Omega or one of those VDH / generic ones?
Cheap boars are awful, but many ones from those two brands (and Zenith) in the $15 to $25 range are OK. (Many swear by boars as their one and only, but I personally favor synths and badgers more - a $15 synth is a lot more pleasant to use than a new boar, and has instant break in out of the box along with no smell to speak of.)
But assuming you have a brand name boar and do not mind its pokey nature, no imminent need to change that up.
Jesus. I meant badger lol. I just pulled off a cold shave with a persona platinum blade in the crusader and was very happy. The barrister soap was a great lube as well. I had a great shave last night. The throats going to need some more practice, but a huge improvement!
Excellent, good to hear!
There's lots of bad badger in the world too, especially the stuff sold at Target and the like, even at fairly high prices. Amazon has the other end of the spectrum, awful badger at cheap prices. Hopefully you're using something like Stirling or Maggard badger?
But a mediocre brush won't ruin a shave, it just makes it a bit less fun. Keep on plugging away, and try to keep the gap the same from day to day on the Crusader so you can eliminate one variable for now.
Glad the B&M worked well for you.
Do brushes get old?
Remember also that a very long handle (such as found on the Crusader) gives you all sorts of ways to hold it. Generally, hold at center of razor balance point, which IME on the Crusader is far up the handle away from the bottom, maybe at the top third of the handle. If your grip is very close to the bottom or top, you may find a smooth technique harder to perfect.
I have been holding extremely low. Thanks will try much higher next time