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Only an absolute idiot thinks that people "put women on a pedestal and that them like some infallible overlords who can do no bad".
The fact of the matter is, women are humans. Some are shitty people, some are not. Most are somewhere in between.
But face it, incels, the reason you don't spew your hateful bullshit in public is because there would probably be negative consequences. It's not that you don't believe it. It's that you don't want anyone to know that you believe it. That's why you spew it in your nasty little groups using an anonymous account.
You're not fooling anyone.
some are shitty people, some are not, most are somewhere in between
I don’t know why but I really like this quote
It's kind of iambic.
"Some are shitty, some are not, most are in-between," has a bit of a bouncier rhythm.
So true, they remind me of this 'street preacher' who continuously shouts out BS and how someone conked him on the head with a baseball bat. They wish they had that confidence, but don't want the consequences.
No, but I do believe that that one story of Roald Dahl was slightly true. Sometimes you can see sadness when people smile or sense a lie. We have very advanced non verbal communication as humans, and we aren't always good at sending the message we want to send. Some people are very good at picking up intent from simple tunes, twitches, mannerism.
Boys, you betray yourselfs so many times. All the average 20 something woman needs to determine if you fancy or dislike her is one look. You don't need to say hi, maintain eye contact, just a fraction of a second.
I have male "forever alone" friends. And I try to help them. But they often don't let me and are very defeatist. It is emotionally exhausting.
Even if Roald Dahl sort of looked like someone that'd have you pulling your children, spouse, or groceries just a little closer to you if he stepped into an elevator beside you.
I mean, he's not as fucking terrifying as Shel Silverstein, who's the nightmare offspring of Moishe Dayan and a silverback gorilla, but he's got that something.
Being a writer, I'm pretty sure I've got it, too, sometimes.
Even if Roald Dahl sort of looked like someone that'd have you pulling your children, spouse, or groceries just a little closer to you if he stepped into an elevator beside you
Considering his childhood, it's not surprising. I should know we both went to the same school...
Repton or The Hellsing Academy for Wayward Vampires?
Porta Vacat Culpa
Say, Hi, to Integra for me, will you, at the next convention?
Hah I wish it was option number 2, I really do.
Now I want to ask you if the horror tales of British boarding schools are true or seriously true.
Well lets just say, there has been some SERIOUS anti-bullying campaigns even in my time.
So assuming the trend continued after my departure I'd say its probably quite bearable at this point. Nothing quite so horrid that Dahl went through for sure.
I'd say the worst part is that unlike normal schools you ARE stuck with the people in your house and there isn't anywhere to run to so to speak.
And I'm sure we all know just how kind and gentle kids are (hah)
I wonder how the inventive sadism of American high schools compares with British public schools.
Haha, well I guess if you are thinking about letting your main character die a terrible death.
Roald Dahl must have had some gruwesome thoughts too.
Have you ever thought that maybe it's not that your friends don't "let" you help them but that maybe you just can't and it's a waste of both your and their time to try? Also that maybe they have those defeatist attitudes for a reason, and that they aren't unjustified?
All the average 20 something woman needs to determine if you fancy or dislike her is one look. You don't need to say hi, maintain eye contact, just a fraction of a second.
i actually do agree on this, girls will see if they are interested in you as soon as they see you
but not for the reasons you think they do
Lol so because of their looks.
Everything is a binary to these fucksticks. Either women are livestock or ubersluts. Either you’re the world’s most handsome man or an uggledy-fuggledy. Either you despise females everywhere or you worship them and put them on a pedestal. No middle ground; it’s all or nothing!!!
What simple fucking children these abhorrent taintstains are.
I remember a post the other day where they rated Zac Efron a 7/10 because they found a picture of him standing next to the Rock. They definitely have a pretty warped sense of sexuality and relationships in general.
They only post mildly nuisance things like this because either OP is only borderline Incel or else they want to gaslight you into forgetting that they post a lot of crazy/violent things and the majority of the sub agrees with those posts.
So why give them the attention?
Because sunshine being the best disinfectant and all that.
What does that mean? Sorry, i am not a native speaker.
It's a saying. "Sunlight is the best disinfectant" means, bringing something to light is the best way to expose and then get rid of evils that hide in darkness.
In other words, if you want to get rid of something that is secret and wrong, show it to the world. Expose it. It's the best way to get rid of it.
For me it looks like they want the attention.
That's "overlady" to you, mister. *cue sinister laugh*
Not until The Day of The Advent.
Orders from The Gynocracy. You're just about to lose your permit, #11280072.
Oh my. I must have scheduled that in for the wrong day in my evil foid agenda. I promise it won't happen again!
I really don't want to lose that permit. It has "007" in it.
This freaking killed me 🤣🤣
"We're perfectly normal people, just like you!"
"Here's an avalanche of cliquish ideological doggerel so ridiculous even the Seventeenth Commissariat of The Perpetual TERF Revolution, Second People's Ideologue Division, had to call in reinforcements to translate."
And we interact with Women all the fucking time
You mean staring at them from afar and thinking that everyone around you has fucked her at least twice?
I just think they're nowhere near as good at hiding their awful beliefs as they think they are.
I dont think they really try.
Looks-match and smv are some of the best ways to grantee loneliness. Women are not your problem you broke logic is
It's hilarious to me that they assume that since they don't have the balls to say what they believe in public (because they know they are pieces of shit), they assume that they are capable of such Oscar-worthy performances that they never, through word, tone, or body language, betray their seething hate and misogyny.
Incels: Do you really think that no one can pick up on it? Do you really think you have such amazing social skills that you can pull the wool over everyone's eyes?
Started poorly, got better in the middle and then completely failed the landing.
Deleted Challenger joke.
"I interact with, and have friends that are, women. I don't actually believe all this stupid shit about them as a gender. Like men, they're just human beings. Oh, and they compulsively hop from cock to cock until they get older at which point they take advantage of the men they've been ignoring by using them for money because they're greedy, self-absorbed monsters who are ruining the world and forcing men into imceldom."
And out of all these women yall deal with in your day to day lives not a single one wants anything to do with yall, on any level.
That should speak volumes but of course it's their fault. Women are just being thier normal Chad obsessed roasties. /s
Incels are so contradictory, they only want women to date their so called “looks match” but only seem to be attracted to 10/10 women with unrealistic anime proportions.
You have women friends? Sure you do buddy and I'm Santa
They're probably a bit like those "good Black friends" you never get to meet.
Some of us actually do though. I'm going to a girl's birthday do next week and another's BBQ the week after.
Some incels still have social skills and banter.
Yeah, you’re fucking cowards who would never dare to speak about your true beliefs in public because you know you’d be ostracised and rejected for it.
The worst kind of cowards - those who won’t live and put themselves on the line for their beliefs.
Yah, no one's putting women on pedestals here. But also, if you can tell all women are whores who like the cock carousal, they and the rest of society can tell you're an incel into raping women and children.
Posts like this always make me think about how completely socially under developed these guys must be, that they think that it's some outlandish alien telepathy that a person might get a weird vibe about you. Or perhaps undiagnosed autistic.
There are people who can charm others and act perfectly pleasantly while harbouring horrible, violent thoughts. Those people are... well, one hates to use the word "sociopath", but.... the things you think about do show on your face, and it takes a fair amount of social skill to hide it all the time. Haven't you ever been hungry and grumpy and had someone ask you, "what's wrong"? You didn't have to scream "I'M HUNGRY AND GRUMPY" from the rooftops, it's just that people with decent social awareness will pick up on your social cues. And if you had the social skills to hide those cues, you would have the social skills to build bonds with other people, and so you wouldn't be incel. Full stop.
So, yeah, if you are going around thinking about how ever woman you meet is fucking Chad left and right and hating her for it, if you are imagining in detail her sex life in a horrible, degrading way, if you spend huge chunks of your life obsessing about how much you hate women and imagining them being murdered and raped, if you look at every interaction with a woman as a way to get something, then... yeah, it's going to show. No, people aren't going to look at you and telepathically divine that you frequent Braincels, they're just going to pick up on a grumpy, unpleasant, resentful vibe. Maybe they won't be able to put their finger on exactly why you make them uncomfortable. They'll just feel like something is "off" about you.
And we develop these skills for good reasons. Imagine dating an Incel guy - neediness, obsession, hatred, the expectation that your partner is there to fulfill your every wish and need, extreme jealousy... Yeah, we have very good reasons to be on the lookout for social cues that might give evidence for these personality traits. That's not to say that men with those traits never get partners, but those guys have significantly more social skill and awareness, which makes them better at manipulating people into thinking they're OK guys.
In essence, Incels are often abusive personality types that are angry that they don't have the social skills to actually manipulate someone into a position to be abused.
No one here thinks like that. Literally all everyone here says is that women have rights to reject anyone if they want. How tf is that gassing someone up exactly? A girl can jump from hot guy to the next if she wants it’s her body who fucking cares. Girls don’t like incels bc incels a shitty people
It's funny that these guys try to act like they function in society when they actually fake it the entire time. Good for them I guess. They got us good.
i had such high hopes and then they were crushed by the buzzword salad at the end.
I thought you guys thought the issues stemmed from women being treated more like men, sexual equality and freedom, freedom to choose a partner etc?
Isn't it the case that women are gradually being treated more and more like men?
Why do you think it is ok for men to pick and choose who they sleep with, but not women?
And what the bloody hell gives you the right to assign a sexual market value to a woman?
What was the comment
I have been here a while and I haven't seen anyone elevating women above men. I'm a man if it makes it more plausible.
But all you're saying here is that women have higher standards now and that's a bad thing, but you also see dating as a free market economy so surely they're just finding their level? You don't get to have it both ways, it can't be both a free market and also wrong for people to sleep with the best people they can.
They think just having respect for women is putting them on a pedestal. Not calling women names and degrading them is putting them on a pedestal to incels.
Who determines sexual market value? Yall think this shit is ok? This is incel shit. No rational intelligent person even thinks of something like a sexual market value. That really pisses me off.
Who the fuck do yall think you are deciding what a woman's standards should be? Each woman is different and is entitled to choose who she wants and y'all have zero say so in it. Just no with this. No. Fuck no. Dont ever think anyone has a right to determine someone elses standards and value. Especially incels. Edit a word
Dude, I wanted to land a 6 foot musical Apollo when I was 19, and that was long before dating apps and easy-to-use-websites. Young ladies have ridiculous tastes, then experience gives them some clue and those tastes are refined. Same goes for dudes.
Well, I’m no Apollo, but 2/3 ain’t bad.
I can give you an article about it, the writer is a woman if it makes it more plausible.
On the internet???
Well that just proves everything!
I believe the fault is social media and dating apps. It has raised everyones (but in particular, womens) standards.
Let us, for a moment, assume this is true.
Do you know what the healthy reaction to this would be? To adapt.
There is no such thing as the way things "should" be. There is only the way things are. You adapt, or you perish.