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Ah, yes. Right here. The Department of Labor even has an entry for "cock carousel riding." It's the U69 graph. It's the only job that lets you qualify for Social Security at 18, which is "post-wall."
We can all be relieved to know the market for loud misogynistic internet assholes is bullish even when everything else is going to shit.
I don’t even understand the cock carousel thing. Like I was under the impression both men and women went a little crazy sexually when they hit college - I’m doing the exact same thing these guys are accusing women of right now and I’m a guy. Where did these people get the idea that only women are promiscuous?
In their tiny, rotten minds it's just fine for men to have all the sex they want, it's only wrong for us gals to do it. Because reasons.
You know, having multiple sexual partners at once increases your sexual marketplace value, makes you harder to keep. Eventually, you’ll be able to settle down with someone as valuable as you are, and (hopefully) maintain a healthy, long-lasting relationship.
Of course, there’s a difference between that and straight-up cheating on someone.
As far as I know, people have always believed that, but incels take stereotyping to a whole other level. Y
Incel = involuntary celebrate. That dont have sex and dont want to think they are the reason that happens
Most men are not capable of that
And why can't women do both? They can focus on their career during the day, and lust after Chad in the evenings and at weekends. (/s)
Their posts just get more and more stupid.
If sociologists were like economists, they'd be celebrating that the human race will never really hit Peak Stupidity.
I'm glad no one but economists are like economists.
Are you for god damned serious here dude? YES, CAREERS. Do they know a single woman in the real world? Honestly, do they? I DON'T EVEN KNOW ANY WOMEN ANY MORE. I literally don't. I've got my Mom and that's it. And I know women aren't like that! The last few examples of women I've known were, uh, not the best either.
Besides their bitch mom and slut sister they don’t know any woman irl /s
You wanna know something though? My biological mother (my Mom I mentioned above is a foster mom who's been in my life for decades), she wasn't the best mother. She was a man-hating "FeMiNiSt" (what she called herself, which isn't what she was) hellbitch, truth be told. And my sisters constantly bullied me. So I grew up thinking all women (and by extension all feminists) were like them.
Well I overcame all that shit. I have no contact with any of those people anymore but I've overcome so much of the hatred and pain towards women that I used to have inside of me. I do my level best to not judge a woman before I know her (that's harder than it sounds but gets easier over time) and I don't treat her any differently than I'd treat a man in the same situation.
I dislike how this sounds like I'm boasting about how woke I am now. That's not my intention. I just feel it's important for stories like that to be told. I was never an incel (I'm actually gay and have been in a relationship for about 8 years) but I sure hated women; if misogyny like mine, that was so insidiously settled into my very character, can be overcome, then here's hoping theirs can too.
Congrats on getting out of that kind of environment. I didn’t get the impression that you were trying to be woke either.
Thanks and thanks. 🙂 It's been a long and hard-fought journey but damn, has it ever been worth it.
For any incels reading this, if you're on the precipice, almost ready to change... Take the plunge. It is fucking scary, I know, but please believe this internet stranger when he says, your life gets so much easier and full of contentment when you do. It doesn't get easy or happy automatically or instantly. That's a little unrealistic, and to have life be easier and feel more content in general will take time. But just do it man, your life will be better for it.
For the record, I really hated women. I did. I thought they were all life-ruining human-shaped swarms of killer bees with few redeeming characteristics in general. Women like my (foster) Mom were alright but in general they were all bitches. Once I stopped treating women like they were all bitches they stopped being bitches-by-default to me. I treated them more fairly so they treated me more fairly.
As I said up top...do it, man. Take that leap of faith. You can. You don't ever have to be a feminist or even a leftist. I'm personally very firmly in the centre on most issues these days, slightly to the right on some and a little to the left on others. The world isn't as black-and-white as it's appeared to be.
take care. i know what it's like to hit rock bottom and how messy things get. for me an old teacher from high school was my saving grace. he had this life motto about how the things we value the most in life tend to be the hardest to achieve and it kept honestly kept me alive when i didn't see how things could possibly get better.
Thank you. That's a great philosophy your teacher had, too.
My philosophy on perseverance was given to me by my (foster) Mom. She told me once, "the worst that can happen is they say 'no'." It's really given me a tenacity when trying to find answers to questions or get something that's important to me or my loved ones that I don't think I would have had otherwise.
He always would say “I never said it’d be easy, I only ever said it’d be worth it.” And damn is it now that I’m in a better place.
They must not have jobs then. Because if they did they would like see fellow coworkers of the opposite sex pursuing their career.
Honestly, I don't think they'd see it. I think they'd see anything a female coworker did in the workplace to advance as bitchy, aggressive, bossy, controlling, etc. and if a woman got an advancement well, she sucked and fucked her way up there. They wouldn't see her putting in the long hours, dedication and sacrifices that her male coworkers are too.
Is it that they are really choosing to prioritize careers over families or is it that the cost of living is so fucking expensive these days that women have really no other choice but to focus on their career so that they can set themselves up financially for having a family in the first place? You basically need to make like six figures to support a family on one income in just about every metropolitan area in North America. So it should come as no surprise that the labour force participation rate for women is like over 80% in just about every metro area in North America.
And what the hell does "families" mean, anyway? Abandoning your career and social life to be a stay-at-home mother to your offspring?
Maybe, oh, I dunno, women would rather just live with only their husband or wife instead of having the hell horror in hordes of shrieking shitting puking gurgling, yes, extortionately punitively expensive children.
Financially and socially, children are the equivalent of building your house on an Indian burial ground and a pet cemetery and an old shrine to Cthulu.
Yes not all women want kids. I am a stay-at-home wife with no kids and when I've had a discussion about this with conservatives, they are quick to say that I'm lazy and not pulling my weight in the household because I don't have children and don't want children. Meanwhile my husband wakes up to breakfast already made, his clothing already laundered, ironed, comes home to a clean house and dinner already made. I know how to use a plunger, screwdriver and wrench. Unpaid work is still work. And these skills have monetary value in the free market. Also I have BPD and I don't think it's a good idea to reproduce even if I wanted children since BPD is hereditary and I notice symptoms in my mother and grandmother. How many problems in the world are caused by hereditary mental illnesses?
Even a lot of liberals admittedly are judgy when I tell them that I'm a homemaker and then they ask about my kids and I say I don't have any. It's immediately assumed that you are lazy and not earning your keep in society if you don't win bread or raise children. We're brainwashed into believing that we don't have value as human beings if we aren't busy breadwinning to make some rich guy even more rich.
That sounds familiar.
Have you heard the bullshit about being selfish that you're not shoving more children into a charred, overpopulated, shriveling world, too?
That one is my particular favorite. Especially when they follow it by giving me a list of incredibly selfish reasons to have children, like Don't I want to have someone to support me when I'm old? Don't I want to have a little doll to dress up and turn into a mini me? You're so selfish to not want to have a helpless human you can manipulate and own!
Pretty much just described the reason for my conception.
And about 90% of the human race.
I will forever stand by women and men who choose not to have kids. I don't ever judge those who choose not to have children. It sounds like you and your husband have a marriage and life that works for you and it sounds great ☺️
I'm a stay at home parent with young children and it's... Not for everyone. I was too early on in my career when I was surprised by pregnancy (pill that I'd been taking for 7 years stopped working) to make going back to work worthwhile until they are older. Daycare fees are extortionate.
pill that I'd been taking for 7 years stopped working
I've heard about something like this. Where there was a manufacturing defect in birth control pills and they had to do a recall. lol. That's wild. My car has had so many recalls that I am fortunate that I haven't died in the thing.
This is why legal safe abortion is necessary because these birth control methods are not 100% and it's unreasonable to expect humans to not have sex at all. Just like an automobile could be designed with serious safety flaws.
Condoms are also not 100%. I remember one time I was in missionary and the condom broke and I didn't notice. And the guy claimed to not have noticed. Then when he came, that was when I had that "oh shit" moment.
I've heard about men (and women) tampering with condoms before though. Either because they want non-consensual raw sex or they want to trap you in a pregnancy. I wonder what the likelihood is that a condom would actually break while not used improperly or tampered with.
Daycare fees are extortionate.
Yeah absolutely. If you want a career, you'll still be able to have the opportunity for it down the road. I knew a teacher who had children out of the way early (I didn't pry as to whether it was accidental or not) and then became a teacher afterwards. I can't recall if she did her schooling before or after having kids.
I have to imagine that a lot of employers discriminate against housewives who have a large work history gap or who have "homemaker" under work experience. But it appears that at least some housewives have been able to transition into the workplace later.
You're living my spouse's dream life! Once my salary is high enough we're genuinely considering having them be a stay at home house spouse/dog parent.
Yeah it really is beneficial to both parties to have that division of labour if you can afford it. It's tough to put in 50+ hours/week working once you factor in the commute, prep, etc. and then have to make dinner, clean the house, do the laundry, run errands, etc. Which is the lifestyle that most people live.
When I was working a 9-5, especially when I was single, I ate a lot of fast food and processed convenient foods like instant ramen noodles, TV dinners, hot pockets/calzones, those frozen Jamaican beef patties, frozen pizza, boxed chicken tenders/nuggets. And my blood sugar was high, I looked bloated for having a diet high in sodium (ramen is extremely salty), drinking lots of water due to constant thirst and peeing a lot. What you save in time for ordering fast food and convenient food, you sacrifice in health.
Most people don't have much in the way of free time. We give so much of our time to our employer. Meanwhile the labour force participation rate is dropping because jobs are being eliminated due to automation or outsourced. So it's not like we have an overall labour shortage (I'm sure we do in some areas). It's absurd how society is structured right now. Where most of the time two people have to put in that 50+ hours/week just to make ends meet.
Omg I have BPD too and even though I already didn’t want kids, that’s another big reason why I would never. Other people w BPD might be able to do it, but I’m mentally ill enough that I can barely take care of myself, never mind another human life.
Yeah I would not wish this disorder on a child. I am fortunate that I'm able to get psychotherapy through my husband's private health insurance plan. I have a friend with BPD who has two children. And that situation is such a clusterfuck. I definitely had trouble holding down a 9-5. And it wasn't just problems with temperament. But I just felt like I always operated at sub-optimal efficiency in the workplace. And it was hard for me to feel motivated and happy when I just wasn't good at my job.
going their own way my ass
It seems so ridicilous how their whole philosophy is supposed to be about being an invidual and not being committed to others. Still 95% of the posts in there are about hating women. They hate on men who are "obsessed" about women and date them when they're even more obsessed about them, just in a different way.
TLDR: apparently women get paid to ride the “cock carousel” and all that sex is resulting in fewer babies.
all any of them do is focus on women, which is fine but contradictory and hypocritical. It's all just a giant cope. Several subreddits focus on mocking women or gtow but they're all just coping with loneliness.
oh get real. 66% of my office is women. not hyperbole, i did the math. like, slutty or not women do literally work, that's mathematically just reality. easily observable, indisputable reality, for p much anyone with a job. if there's a cock carousel anywhere in the building i've never seen it.
Listen, you don't know struggle until you've tried to get a cock carousel full of Chads to issue you a W2. And don't even get me started on the 401(k).
That would actually be a 1099. You will be reimbursed solely on a contract basis. Chad Inc. is not responsible for any further benefits, such as retirement plans or health insurance.
Usually I understand where these people are coming from, haters gonna hate, but this is a recurring incel/MGTOW idea I legitimately don't get. Where does this persistent idea that it's 1953 originate? These guys weren't alive in 1953. They're allegedly not incels, so presumably they've had jobs. Didn't they see the women there? Most MGTOW have been in relationships -- didn't they see their partner working? Seriously, I don't get it.
Well, it does say until you reach dubious age and I’ve also frequently seen them say women are sexually worthless after the age of like 20. So maybe they just forgot that we have a lot of career years left after our ovaries dry up in our early twenties.
Dubious fertility sounds like Schroedinger's vagina.
I was actually recently tempted to take a picture of all the "manly" magazines sold at where I work and to post it to MGTOW titled, "Some ways to go your own way."
Excuse me. I make a good, honest living riding the Cock Carousel. Having sex with Chad all the time is hard work, but it pays the bills. I even have enough left over each month to put in my IRA for when I become a worthless slut-hoe.
Shit, another thing I'm doing wrong. /s
I want to know why they call it a cock carousel cuz I dint think they’ve been on an actual carousel since they were four. One thing I noticed on an actual carousel is you pick a horsey and you stay on it. You don’t change horseys. So even their dumbass lingo makes no sense.
Things cost money. Nice things cost lots of money. What do they want us to do, steal?
That's a cute baby :)
I wonder what those guys' moms think about all that.
Most of them think their moms are AWALT (all women are like that) so often times, they don’t even trust their own mothers. It’s actually a really interesting group of people to observe. Some of them genuinely want to be happy on their own while the other half make comments like that one.
TIL more sex with more partners results in fewer babies.
As if that dude has a career lol.
Riding the cock carousel and reaching worthless slut ho status sounds worlds better than procreating with these sour weirdos. 🤷
Oh my fucking gawd. Please, go your on fucking way already. Pretty please. The world is done with your awfulness. Move yourselves to an island somewhere. You can frolic with you pals and rest assured that no more troublesome foids or chads will make you so very sad and angry. Really, no one wants you.
I wish they'd just call themselves something else.
Men are in need of a movement that encourages them to disregard society's script for us and choose our own paths instead. MGTOW just aint it.
So men can go their own way, but how dare women go their own way and choose careers over babies?
They don’t get out much do they?
Someone has to take the non IT jobs.
Tell that to my (former) boss, she'd probably have a few thoughts about it