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That's why I exclusively play video games under the name "Horsecock Thunderballs". They don't suspect a thing.
I would honestly do that unironically. That's a fantastic name.
men can use their first names online but as soon as a woman does she’s attention whoring 🙄
One of the other usernames that I blurred out contained the name James LOL.
I knew as soon as I read the thing about the usernames that that would be the case lol
"Darn those lousy women and their..shuffles cards going by their own name!"
Can someone explain to me what happend here?
they see anyone using a woman’s name in their username online and believe she must be using it to alert everyone to her femininity so she will get special treatment and attention from guys. never mind that men with their names in their usernames dont raise any eyebrows. Ethansaurus9 is fine but Beccasaurus9 must be an advertisement. i think it derives from the idea that male is the default.
(personally i use androgynous usernames because i enjoy anonymity and i usually get treated worse if strangers find out im a girl. it’s the same reason i won’t use voice chat in a game unless i’m playing with people i know.)
(also generally in my experience in gaming if you see someone with all pink accessories named xx_babygirl_slut_xx flirting with everyone, ie someone who IS trying to flaunt feminine sexuality, it’s always a guy trolling. literally every time.)
Yeah its really rare that i see a woman's name, i do have one (not my real one) that i have used on every game for years now so id rather not change it. I Never talk on voice chat so i guess thats why i rarely ever get called out for being a grill. But have met some creeps anyway.
Generally i only notice there might be girls in the match bc they have a cute name or they speak while using a nongendered name, nit that it matters anyway :7
I see. Are we sure the people in the comments are adults?
Not saying you're wrong but I have noticed that there are way way way way way way more women who use their first name as part of their usernames on websites.
I do notice men doing it sometimes but it just seems way more common for girls to do it.
Playing "spot the incel" is such a lame game if you can peruse someone's post history.
It's like spot the Vegan at a steakhouse.
Wow. You got me alright. When was I ever even trying to hide that? I'm just pointing out to the person I replied to that while men do this also, girls do it much much more.
But, you know, poring over your post history, you don't broadcast the angry venomous hatred that most of your brethren do. Just kind of a beaten-down sense of frustration and a very unrealistic sense of most women's sexual opportunities.
I'm not even being facetious when I say: Try to stay away from those guys and just make an effort to make friends outside of the internet.
I'll admit I really can't prove that. The only way you could is by looking at the database of usernames on websites and services and analyzing that. But I have seen way more girls use their names in posts than men. They know it will give them special attention.
I think you'd find that most of us don't give off this venomous hate, the Blackpill is just an unfortunate reality of life.
And don't worry, I have plenty of friends in real life.
I'm sorry to say, but you still have a vague tinge of that animus. I think it's become almost reflexive for many people who identify as incels.
Saying something like that: Your belief that women instinctively want special attention, even on the internet. You can't prove it, and if you dissected it rationally and socially, it wouldn't make much sense with just how much of that attention is essentially negative.
I hope you meet someone who can persuade you to turn away from what might be a growing misogyny.
The only person at this point that could save me from this """"""""misogyny""""""" is a girlfriend. Literally any girlfriend
And if they didn't want special attention why would they is their first name so much compared to men?
First: We just established that there's no evidence they use their first names so much compared to men; that their user names are their first names or if they're just random female names or even if they're actually female.
This is a total unknown without hard studies. It's circular to try to justify your claims of their wanting special attention by looping back to that.
A serious question: Did you deliberately add that many quotation marks around misogyny, or is my browser freaking the fuck out?
And second: You can find a girlfriend. I know you can. Find people with similar interests. Go to concerts. Go to parties. Go to gaming events or gatherings or try something new. Try rock-climbing at the local fitness club.
Ask yourself: What's keeping me from meeting people who might like me? Try to find the source. I think one problem is that you might be trying to find a romantic relationship outright, rather than just letting one develop through friendship.
Don't, don't, don't be afraid of being friends with girls. Girls are much more apt to date their friends than random dudes off the street. But girls will know if you don't respect them, if you harbor toxic ideas about them.
That's true there is no way to prove this. It's just based on how much I notice it, it would seem to be true.
Yes I put all those quotes around misogyny because this is not misogyny. I don't hate women and I don't see anything that would make me hate them in the future. Hating whole groups of people is definitely not right.
I have been to concerts, parties and other events. Pretty much every girl at these events is there with their boyfriends because every girl my age has a boyfriend if she wants to. So I cannot get a girlfriend. No girl would go out with me because i am very short and I have my fair share of struggles.
I think the point is is that it doesn't matter who does it more, the point is it doesn't matter. Theres a quote which is kinda handy for peeps: "if you have a problem with X in women and not in men then your problem is not with X but with women."
thats not my experience. in my friendgroup only 3 people use their names as part of their discord names, and all 3 of them are dudes. i think you must just notice womens names more because you pop a boner every time you read the word emily lol
As someone named Emily, I feel strangely honored by this comment :)
Woah enough of the personal attacks
You say as you and people with your mental deficiencies personally attack, threaten to rape, murder, beat etc women no matter what kind of person they are.
Tell me, hopeless one;
Why identify yourself as incel? Why blame others for your own obvious shortcomings? And if the situation is so unbearably bleak.... Why go on? A hope, perhaps? That one day a female will be FOOLISH enough to give you the time of day?
You crush that hope every day you wake up and call yourself incel anyway. Either reflect inward and decide to make the change for your own good or stop torturing yourself
I and most other incels do not advocate for harming anyone or hating women. This is a misconception that is spread by this subreddit. It make you believe that most of us are like that.
I know I have my short comings. But back in the day as long as you were a good and honest person, you were able to get into a loving relationship. Now, the requirements are so so so so so much more for a guy. Dating is fucked for my generation.
Are you trying to tell me if I truly believe in the Blackpill I may as well just kill myself? I go on for my family and friends, especially my niece.
I'm not torturing myself. Just facing the harsh realities.
Edit:Also that comment of mine was a joke. Because it was way too real.
Back in the day lol. You must be one of those "educated" teenagers who claim they were born in the wrong century.
I'm an adult. I'm 21. And I'm honestly mostly satisfied with being born then. It's just that dating and sex is so messed up now. If this was even the early 2000s, the majority of people on braincels would probably be in relationships or having sex.
Women don't want to date entitled, misogynistic man-babies who can't take responsibility in life and bring nothing to the table = dating and sex is messed up now. K. I mean, the whole fact that you call yourself an incel at 21 is pretty much a sign of some sort of mental deficiency. Lots of people start dating in their twenties for the first time. But if your idea of reality is based on watching some underage porn and reading "research" posted on braincels then yeah, I don't know anyone who would want to associate with you and I wouldn't blame them for it. Blame yourself. If you're an adult, take responsibility, if you can't, you're pretty much on a mental level of an entitled teenager.
You're right. Women want to date attractive, entitled, confident and aggressive men. How come women can always pick up on the fact that you're an incel and you sent your frustrations online, but they can never seem to tell you're the kind of guy that will beat the shit out of them?
Inb4 "Oh well you don't understand, those guys start out so charming and you would never think they could do something like that. They're good at hiding it". Why can't incels do this. How come we can't seem to hide the fact that we get frustrated on the internet?
It's BS. Women cannot tell exactly who you are from meeting you for the first time. I guarentee everyone on this subreddit knows someone that posts on incel forums and they'd never know because they appear to me normal and nice people in real life.
So enough of this garbage.
You millennials won't ever understand this shit.
You're too young for that depression cult. Get out
No I'm not. I'm the right age
If you want to relinquish any agency you have over your own life and drift eternally downward into misery and decay, that's your choice. But the day may come when you want more out of life, and the longer you wait, the harder it is to swim back up. I hope you don't wait too long.
Thanks. I have accepted this stuff as truth though.
When I met my S.O. in the game we played, his character's name was literally his first name with numbers on the end. Mine was an androgynous name I shat out to sound like it'd fit my character's race.
Not saying it doesn't happen. I'm just saying women tend to do it much much much more. Because they know they will get special treatment for being a girl. It's not all positive treatment so many women will also try and hide that they are female. However a large amount of them do.
I've honestly not once gotten anything positive out of having a feminine username. It's all harassment or begging to be their girlfriend that I've ever gotten by letting randos know. Have I ever gotten helped through difficult content for a noob, or been gifted things to help me level? Yes. Perhaps coincidentally, all by motherly types who just enjoy helping. And I've done the same and paid it forward.
Exactly! Women get special treatment online because their woman. And then you have the opposite that harasses you because their assholes or they are so deprived of female attention.
It's truly a different experience we have. Women get so much attention from the opposite sex it's annoying. Men get absolutely none that it's sad.
I literally just said I've never gotten special treatment, only harassment and begging in the few instances where my username was feminine. The examples of people helping me as a noob were with an androgynous name, and other women offering help. I mentioned that may be coincidence, but not once have I been offered help by a random guy who didn't have ulterior motives.
Attention is attention. You seriously wouldn't last a week as a guy today.
I've never hidden the fact that I'm female in games, and I have yet to receive positive special treatment.
Negative special treatment on the other hand...
And if you use a neutral username, people just assume that you're male. I use the name Valkyrie as my Overwatch battletag as well, so a female title, and they still assume I'm male. Even though the term is connected to the female character they like to claim all girl gamers play.
Lemme guess, you play as healer in overwatch? And you probably do get special treatment. I'm sure all the male players try and protect you. Negative attention to you is guys wanting to be friends with you hitting on you. You wouldn't last a week as a guy.
Are you assuming I play as a healer because I'm female? But no, I'm a flex player, actually. Which is pretty much the point in Overwatch. Although there's no shame in playing as a healer, they require a different skillset and only a minority of the playerbase wants to pick them.
Oh I do get special treatment, just not the kind you're referring to. I've been called cunt, I've been told that all girls are bad at games because of their sex, and I've had a guy harassing me for multiple games in a row. Another threw a fit because a girl got potg instead of him.
I don't even get protected when I do pick healer, even though that kinda should be the case. Let alone when I tank or dps.
But sure, guys have it so much worse than female gamers who get told that they're automatically bad, should just quit games and are just there to encroach on "men's territory".
I never said women can't play video games. I think today pretty cool actually. It's just usually they get special treatment and alot fo it to attention whore. You obviously are not like that. I am sorry.
I don't buy into the "you're just not like other girls" kind of mindset. You might not have said that women can't play video games, that was just an example I gave, but that doesn't make what you said any better by comparison or something. You still gave me that "female gamer? Must be a healer!" crap. And then the "but you're better than all those other women" crap.
I'm starting to think that you don't actually know any female gamers, if you think that "usually" they get special treatment and "a lot" do it for attention. There are loads of videos on youtube and articles written online detailing the kind of harassment female gamers face. And there are a lot of female gamers who are presumed to be male. My best friend is also a gamer, she's presumed to be a man, and she doesn't want to bother so she let's them think that. My nearly fifty years old mom loves Hearthstone, and plays under a neutral name. Shirley Curry, a woman over 80 has her own gaming channel on Youtube, and it's the most wholesome channel I've ever come across. Doesn't seem like any of these women are attention whores to me. Could it be that they game because they enjoy the activity?
So in short, I'm not some sort of exception. You just miss the rule because you assume them to be male.
Where did you get this? Even on Reddit alone I see more guy names as usernames.
"If her name was a standard video game user name."
Yeah! There are no female characters ever in any game and it's absolutely her name and also my mom says I can't stay over tonight because I called her a roastie and now I'm grounded and I can't play with my peepee for a month because she's a FEMINAZI!
Mission accomplished: Virginity protected. No thots in my clan 😤
I’m gonna refuse to interact with women even if we share deep rooted interests - also it’s not my fault I can’t get laid
I get that reference in the title
The problem isn't women
Why, yes. The problem is y'all fuckheads.
Imagine wanting to find a girl with the same interests as you, but banning and avoiding them if they try joining your clan. Maybe could've met some other grills through her.. jesus come on incels up you game!
Don't soil that movie with these losers' names.
These misogynistic incel gamer kids are so goddamn dumb. When I was a kid, being a gamer was a pretty rough existence past the age of 13. Very few women played video games at all, nevermind being a gamer. And it was seen as a bullyable offense by lots of assholes. Now that it's popular and women are gaming in higher numbers, these morons want to kick them out of their precious little hobby? What?
She was banned because y'all would rather focus on being Twitch Thots, aka Camgirls, more than you would focus on winning the game.
But sure, it's a bunch of misogynistic pigs crying incel tears because they can't get laid (though I'm sure they probably don't care to; see one set of titties and you've seen them all). Lol, you misandrist bitches always bring me a good laugh.
Who's down to argue today? Or am I going to just get banned because you little Amazonian-wonderwomen can't handle a bit of back and forth dialogue?
So no woman in the entire world plays video games for fun? It's just all for attention, huh? The nerve of these women! Thinking they can have hobbies without your explicit permission!
You show me a woman that actually plays video games (no, Candy crush and Overwatch do not count) and is ACTUALLY playing the game, not just flashing her cleavage, then we'll talk.
I like your style though, passive aggressive.
Oh, and DDR doesn't count either, especially since half the female streamers I see can't even dance either. I dance better than them drunk, and that's saying something. That being said, you wanna 1v1 any day of the week, name your game and bring it, honey.
Man, you are angry, aren't you? What's the matter, sweetie? Your K/D slip under 1 today? Did your loot pinatas have no good rares?
Listen I can't show you shit, because women who are enjoying videogames are doing so in the privacy of their own GD homes you lunatic. What do you expect, for me to bust down doors and take pictures?
Secondly, I won't show you shit, because you are not king videogame, the person who gets to decide who is allowed to enjoy what games and when. I have been gaming since the Atari VCS, and I have seen women and girls enjoying the hobby the same as men and boys the whole time. Go do your gatekeeping somewhere else, you rancid little turd.
Seems like you're a little more lit than I am, honey. Let all that built up anger come out.
You've been gaming since the dawn of time though, whoop Dee Doo, Basil. Based on the way you talk, it doesn't sound like you play anything remotely interesting so, at least you don't have to worry about facing a real challenge.
While we're still remotely on subject, I'd like to take a moment to let you know that boys and men aren't the only gender (of maybe more than two at this point, since anyone can identify as a bisexual pickle anymore) that conduct their squad-management tactics in the manner depicted in the image above. Women and girls pull this shit too, don't even act like that's not true, or show me otherwise to change my mind.
As for gatekeeping, ha, yeah no I'm not here to gatekeep against anyone. I point out bullshit and double standards where I see them, and this place is a Honeypot filled with fuckery for me to hit on, created by you fuck knuckles because you're angry for whatever reason, or because you think you're doing something powerful and noble.
Lastly, can't you at least come up with something that might actually hurt my feelings this time? You sound like a pussy.
Oh lawdy, I must have really touched a nerve if you're gonna go all verbal diarrhea on me. Don't get all choked up just because you can't handle the heat in here.
Listen kiddo, why don't you take your cute little curse words ya just learned and try them on your pre-algebra teacher, maybe you'll get a reaction out of her.
Still waiting on that comeback, Jack. You've been awfully quiet, I was hoping you'd have more shit to talk.
You seem pretty thin-skinned for all that shit talk you were throwing earlier. Beginning to think you're able to dish it but when someone comes back at you, you just report them, rage quit, and go sit in the closet for an hour.
The only heat in here is the one developing in between your thighs, sweetheart. I'd be careful, you might blow a gasket in your head. I can play this game all day, and I'm hoping since you're such an MLG that you can too. So keep at it, twat waffle. 😊
dude, i've been a competitive mmo gamer/raider since i was in high school. my steam library's got 200+ games in it. there are plenty of girls who play video games. you're just a douche, so none of them talk to you.
Why are you talking to me right now then? I never asked you for your opinion, nor did I express any necessity to hear it.
you... asked to be shown a woman who plays video games. you literally did ask.
You didn't show me anything, you just came in to say you play video games, to defend the other bitch who I'm actively having a conversation with. That wasn't what was asked for, but thank you for your interjection anyway.
I really don't care what you've been doing since high school, or what games you play. You're just lit because someone is calling out the bullshit this sub is and it upsets you. Prove me wrong, I'll wait, since you seem pissy too and would like a piece.
You don't see them because they don't like bringing attention to their gender, because of thirsty dumbfucks who immediately lose half of their brain cells when they know they're playing with a girl. On the flip side, there are also bitter asshats who immediately assume girls can't play shit simply for the fact that they're girls. So yes, a girl may in fact just want to play without having to deal with people like you, hence not outing themselves as a girl.
That's not what was depicted in this example; whenever I see a "Heyyyy", it's pretty standard that it's some horny hoe looking to ruin a good team dynamic with that meat slit between her legs. That, or it's a troll and not someone that needed to be a part of the team to begin with.
I think you're probably a bit out of the ballpark on that comeback, but thanks for your opinion.
By the way, the less I have to deal with people like you when I'm trying have a good time in any game, the better, so there's that.
No rebuttal or smart remark? No counter-argument? I'm waiting.